HOW PARENTS CAN HELP ALLIEVIATE THE STRESS OF GETTING INTO COLLEGE
by admin ~ February 11, 2008
Getting into college is a stressful experience for most high school students. However, there are steps that parents can take to help alleviate the stress and assemble the experience more positive. To start with, parents should assemble the process about you not we when discussing college choices, allowing the student to have a sense of empowerment or independence by the college selection and application process.
Parents should NEVER fill out applications, shout schools or schedule appointments for their children with guidance counselors or admissions officers. High School students are quite capable of doing the work essential for getting in to college. Parents should be open to the schools that their children are leaning toward and not fall into the one school only trap as the ultimate prize and reward. Always remember that the emphasis is on enjoying the learning experience, not winning. There are by 3,500 colleges in the US and only 200 of them accept fewer than _ of their applicants.
It is less critical to push your child towards a prestigious school than it is to focus on the school that provides the proper match for successful learning and a meaningful college experience. Encourage your child to research schools early and assemble several visits to college campuses. Plan to accompany your child on these visits, but allow your child the freedom to explore and ask questions independently. Be supportive and boost your child to do mock interviews with other adults to prepare for the college visits.
If possible, start the college planning process in the 9th grade, so that your child can proceed in baby steps instead of at a fast-paced schedule. Parents need to remind their children that there are many colleges and many options and that it is okay whether students don’t get into their first choice selections.
–Katherine Cohen, President and CEO IvyWise LLC http://www.ivywise.com
Katherie Cohen, Ph.D. is the founder and CEO of IvyWise, http://www.ivywise.com a comprehensive educational consulting company. Dr. Cohen graduated from Brown University in 1989 and continued her studies at Yale University, receiving Masters degrees in 1992 and 1994, and a Ph.D. in 1997. She received certification in College Admissions Counseling from U.C.L.A.
Dr. Cohen is the author of two books on college admissions. The Truth About Getting In, which serves as a detailed manual for approaching the college admissions application process and Rock Hard Apps: How to Write a Killer College Application, which chases three students through the college application process and uses dozens of other real applications to illustrate what’s effective in a college application, and what’s not.
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